[fusion_builder_container hundred_percent=”no” equal_height_columns=”no” menu_anchor=”” hide_on_mobile=”small-visibility,medium-visibility,large-visibility” class=”” id=”” background_color=”” background_image=”” background_position=”center center” background_repeat=”no-repeat” fade=”no” background_parallax=”none” parallax_speed=”0.3″ video_mp4=”” video_webm=”” video_ogv=”” video_url=”” video_aspect_ratio=”16:9″ video_loop=”yes” video_mute=”yes” overlay_color=”” video_preview_image=”” border_size=”” border_color=”” border_style=”solid” padding_top=”” padding_bottom=”” padding_left=”” padding_right=””][fusion_builder_row][fusion_builder_column type=”1_1″ layout=”1_1″ background_position=”left top” background_color=”” border_size=”” border_color=”” border_style=”solid” border_position=”all” spacing=”yes” background_image=”” background_repeat=”no-repeat” padding_top=”” padding_right=”” padding_bottom=”” padding_left=”” margin_top=”0px” margin_bottom=”0px” class=”” id=”” animation_type=”” animation_speed=”0.3″ animation_direction=”left” hide_on_mobile=”small-visibility,medium-visibility,large-visibility” center_content=”no” last=”no” min_height=”” hover_type=”none” link=””][fusion_text columns=”” column_min_width=”” column_spacing=”” rule_style=”default” rule_size=”” rule_color=”” hide_on_mobile=”small-visibility,medium-visibility,large-visibility” class=”” id=””]
Love is the answer… self love that is❣️ It’s the way home – back to our fabulous self. It’s the way through the psychological grind of day-to-day living, discovering who we are in our relationships, with our own self-loveliness running through us like a river.
Many people say to me: Pam! …just the thought of me loving myself makes me really uncomfortable, to the point I repell trying to understand what that even means… and seriously, is it really worth the fuss? It seems…well…creepy????like touchy-feely creepy.
I get you! I thought the same dang way…and guess what? That got me in all kinds of relationships that hurt me, controlled me… and lost me???? I didn’t see or believe my own worth so the waters were muddy when it came to attracting a love that I could work…or better yet, grow with.
If it wasn’t developed to begin with, self-love that is, it’s very difficult to recognize or even trust the real deal when it comes aknockin. It leaves us at high risk of looking outside ourselves for ourselves, giving everyone but us, power to dictate our worth.
When we aren’t protected as children, being constantly subjected to drama, trauma, chaos… and no one comes to our rescue, it’s very difficult to develop the ability to love ourselves without a lot of skeptism first. It may even seem like a waste of time. Why?…because we’ve never experience someone taking the time to solidify our worth. Children need to know they matter, that they belong…that someone has their back without the burden of conditions. When children don’t get this, they spend their later years searching…but never really knowing what they’re looking for.
The good news is, as adults we have the opportunity to change our story into something that exudes our worth. We start by advocating for self – one life experience at a time. WE GET BRAVE. We create safety for ourselves within our experiences and in time become witness to our own truth and the surfacing of our worth???? This is how we let love in.
You matter✨
[/fusion_text][/fusion_builder_column][/fusion_builder_row][/fusion_builder_container]